Marks unwell

[debzsanderson]

Had a bad couple of days with Mark. He's more unresponsive than usual, shaking and doesn't want to eat. Not impressed with the out of hours service-phoned midday and a doctor is coming out some time today. I have started antibiotics and give him regular liquid paracetamol but he won't eat. I thought he was under the "hospital admissions avoidance " team but apparent ly as it was a while ago they take you off it . Rang the hospice and they agree speaking to district nurses. I have no family support. I phoned Marks mum and she just said to let her know what's happening and his sister hasn't responded (she is only 4 miles away).

[annie]

Oh dear Debz, I don't know what to say. Thinking of you both
Love anniexx h###u h###u h###u

[debzsanderson]

Doctors now been out and he has a bad uti and temperature so started anti biotic and giving liquid paracetamol regularly. I'm tired now so got night carer in.

[wendy]

thinking of you, seems wrong to say, but that is what I am doing
xx h###u

[maureenho]

Dear Debz, sorry to hear Mark is very poorly again, what a shame Mark's family have no interest, seems to me they think out of sight out of mind, I don't know how they can be like that I really don't.

Thinking of you both h###u

[wendy]

Debs,
When you phoned Marks mum, did you tell her that you could not cope any more?

[Rosalind]

Sorry to hear Mark is unwell Debz, thinking of you, hope you manage to get some sleep. Take care of yourself. h###u h###u

[debzsanderson]

Our gp just came out Marks got shingles as well as a uti. I'm feeling stressed today xx

[wendy]

oh dear, what shocking news.
I hope this does not give his family more of an excuse to keep away
thinking of you
xx

[annie]

Poor lad, but hopefully the uti will clear quickly though. h###u

[maureenho]

Oh dear, he doesn't need that on top of the UTI.

I hope it soon clears up h###u h###u

[JaneJ]

Poor Mark, shingles on top of the UTI.

I do feel for you Debz, it must be so annoying and upsetting not to get his families support. you must bite your tongue a lot!!!

Take care lovely Debz

xx

h###u h###u h###u h###u

[Rosalind]

How awful for Mark to have both shingles and UTI, I hope the medication kicks in quickly. Thinking of you Debz, take care of yourself. h###u h###u h###u h###u

[debzsanderson]

I'm struggling. Thought things were bad dealing with Marks Ms but we are both sleep deprived and mark is in a lot of pain. Doctor coming out soon but probably nothing he can do. Sister and his mum have text but both busy with work so not visiting.

[annie]

h###u h###u h###u h###u h###u h###u h###u

[wendy]

I fear they will keep away because of the shingles.
thinking of you very much
xxxx

[debzsanderson]

Different doctor been out. She has prescribed oral morphine and a special cream to treat burning feeling so here's hoping for a better night tonight xx

[Rosalind]

Hope the new medication works Debz and you both get a good night's sleep. h###u h###u

[maureenho]

Hope you both get a better nights rest tonight h###u

[JaneJ]

I do hope the new medication works.

Hoping you get some well deserved sleep. Mark is so lucky to have you.

Huge hugs Debz

h###u h###u h###u h###u h###u

[annie]

Hope the medication works for him debz h###u

[wendy]

how is Mark today?

[debzsanderson]

He didn't get to sleep until around 2 am and I was up at 6.30 to give antibiotics. He seems a bit better today so when carer comes at 4 I can go to bed for a bit. Made a stew so tea will be easy. I need a break so might try and get an extra night carer and go to premier inn for a night. Thank you for caring xx

[wendy]

I should have asked how you are as well, Debs.
Yes you need a break
xxx

[maureenho]

I hope you are able to get a break Debz, pleased to hear Mark is feeling better