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Whilst we are talking of problems, I have a problem.
My neighbours are ever so good and we all share bringing our wheelie bins in, someone seems to do it, or I do for 3 houses.
Well one of my neighbours has only been there for about 2 years and they dont speak, if they arrive in the drive when I am in the front garden, they just go indoors without even looking at me.
Well I always bring their bin in when I seem to bring the bins in.
But today someone was at home in their house and all they brought in was their bin and left mine and the other 2 outside.
They have done this before.
Should I ignore their bin and leave it out.  It seems so petty, but it niggled me today that they left mine and the others outside.  The other neighbours do not take theirs in, but I do every week.
I think I should stop.  Help.

Wendy I would ignore their bin in future and do the other 2 that you normally do, they are clearly not friendly.

Talking about bins I had to phone council today as they forgot to empty my garden waste bin, she said they had ticked it off as done but will have a word with the driver and they will have to come out and empty mine.

Do unto others as they do to you! 

You are obviously valued and appreciated by your other neighbours.

i wouldn't take in the bin of someone who couldn't even say hello or even give a wave.

Let them do their own as they are obviously capable of doing it and continue in your kindness with your other neighbours.

Life is stressful enough so bin your rude neighbours!!  sp0

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thank you for your kind answers.
it does seem petty to leave a neighbours outside but if they can do it to me and other people, then I will have to toughen up and ignore their bin.
Mostly my kind neighbours bring mine in more than I do theirs, because they are so caring and thinking of me struggling.  I am blessed.

I would leave their bins

I put and bring my next door neighbours bins in he his 90 years old

Ann x

They came and emptied my garden waste this morning after missing it Wednesday.