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Tonight I was going to visit Paul and his nurse phoned me to say he hasn't been very well today.  He has had several seizures, and he was asleep.  I decided not to go and visit, and went across to my neighbours, thinking he'd be better off resting and sleeping it all off.  When I got back home I phoned to see how he was and there was a team of doctors with him - he'd had another really bad fit and was having trouble breathing, so could I go up to hospital.  My neighbour came with me, and they were still working on him.  He's got a tube down his throat to keep his airways open.  I was told by the dr that at the moment if anything happens Pauls in a state of not being resuscitated.  I went to see him and he was out of it, and didn't know I was there. I can't stop shaking or crying.  Don't want to go to bed tonight, or to be on my own, so I phoned Pauls sister & BIL and they're  coming over.  I AM SO SCARED!!!!

Dear Sheila, So sorry to hear that, you must be very worried about Paul right now.
Spend as much time as you can with him even though he's out of it he may still know you are there and talk to him.

Stay strong Sheila, keeping you both in my thoughts.

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I am so sorry to read this Sheila Ann. Thinking of you and will keep you both in my prayers.
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Sorry to hear your news Sheila Ann, thinking of you both  hu****

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thinking of you and Paul
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thinking of you Sheila,
I expect you are still at the hospital, I hope they are making you comfortable.
I hope Paul soon feels much better.

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I am thinking of you both Sheila,

Like Mo says spending as much time with him as possible will be a real comfort to him knowing you are by his side.

i hope you have people with you to hold and support you too.

take care and stay strong. We are all here for you.

xxxxxx

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Sheila, I am so sorry to hear the news about Paul. I am thinking of you both. I second what Mo said, about keeping near, I did the same for Dad and I am sure he knew I was nearby.

Remeber we are here for you.

Sending you both much love

Liz xx

Just thought I would give you the latest on Paul.  I went to see him this afternoon, and after talking to a Matron who was going around asking everyone how they are, I spoke to the O/T and arranged with her, that Paul can finally come back home this Friday.

That's really good news Sheila, I am pleased for both of you

So pleased Paul is coming home Sheila  ann

Ann x

Let's hope this time Paul gets home.

That is good news Sheila, fingers crossed for Friday  goo@@@@

so pleased to hear paul will be returning home on Friday
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That is good news.

i will be thinking of you both tomorrow.

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