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I have been so angry today,stans brain seems to be going worse,we should be enjoying ourselves with the time we have left with one another,stan doesn't deserve this he has been a brilliant husband and dad,as not doubt you own husband/wife as been.I had a good talk with Karen and Stephanie how I have been feeling,I felt I was being a burden to them,they said they are worried about me not dad because he is being well looked after,I was also angry because I couldn't do the things I use to do I know that sounds selfish
Love Ann x

Ann it is only natural you feel so angry and life always seem to throw a spanner in the works when we have other plans, try not to beat yourself up about it, your daughters can see Stan is being well cared for by 'you' and you need to look after yourself, you are very lucky to have such a caring family who are willing to help.

You are not being selfish Ann, you are human.

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I agree with Mo, Ann, no way are you selfish, don't beat yourself up , that is futile
thinking of you
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It is hard Ann. It's like being robbed of the life you planned.

When we day dreamed as kids we didn't add these scenarios into our lives.

I think it is very normal to feel angry. I am so glad you have such supportive family around you, but it doesn't mean you can't be human and feel the way you do.

Thinking of you xxxxx

Dear Ann,
you are not selfish at all.
You are a kind and caring wife and friend, and mother.
Keep positive and enjoy your time with Stan, because he is there with you.
Try to smile in the difficult times.
xxx
with my sincere thoughts and sending you strength,

Do no feel bad Ann, life is so unfair, you just have to try and do you best, which you are doing, you certainly are not selfish. Take care.  hu**** 33900

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thinking of you.
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Thank you all for your lovely replies and support

Love Ann x